What it is like here
Italy is the cheapest large country in Western Europe on this site and the schools, the medicine and the safety are all Western European. The two things to weigh honestly are administration — residence permits here are slow in a way that surprises people — and language, because outside the international schools everything is in Italian.
How the process works
A parent obtains a national visa
Elective residence, self-employment or an intra-company transfer; family members are attached to it.
Permesso di soggiorno within eight days of arrival
The post-office kit, then the questura appointment. It is slow and it is not optional.